Thursday, June 23, 2011

Mom Left Us for Another Man - - - I am in Therapy - - -and Other Happenings


We are serious contenders for the Deadbeat Blogger of the Year Award.  Of course, it's not OUR fault.

Mom is finally home - she had left us for another man -- our nephew, Cayden. 
She had gone to Michigan for a (LONG) while to visit with our sister Lauren and the family.

When Mom travels, she's very serious about getting more "bang for the airline buck" -- no weekend jaunts for her.


I have to admit that the kid IS cute, but he would certainly look better if he had  a *doggie face*.
Mom took him to the Dollar Tree and attempted to teach him  the benefits of thrifty shopping.


Our sister, Jessica managed to take time out from her
busy schedule and join everyone for a weekend.






Our nephew, Nova was more than willing to check out  a crochet project.
He's a lot like Ollie in that respect.

Upon arriving home, Mom was greeted to the sight of a new front door.  She was glad that she was away when the installation took place.



She had seen this door in Lowes and thought that it was a real hoot -- worthy of a picture.  Dad vetoed the idea and I'm sure that the HOA and the neighbors would have something to say if that was the chosen door.
The little window with the bars almost invites you to say, "Who goes there?  State your business."

Dad always makes changes to the house (and to anything else that he thinks of) when she travels. Now she's afraid to leave home again for fear that Dad will have a boat parked in the driveway ~~ or worse yet, replace her old Hoopty with a new car.

All that vacation came with a price -- Dad had scheduled the painters to arrive when she was back in California, so she had to tolerate a house in upheaval. (Actually she thrives in chaos.  It was once suggested that she join Clutters Anonymous.)

We were sequestered upstairs in the bedroom . . .
These are NOT happy faces.
Dad took pity on us and we went to the Dog Park -- a lot.

Here are the *Before and After* Pictures:
Family Room

Kitchen


Living Room



The best news of all is that I am in *Doggie Therapy*.  My pawrents decided that I really needed some help with my fear aggression and ferocious behavior.

They referred me to Chad Culp, who is indeed the Dog Whisperer of Northern California. http://www.thrivingcanine.com/

Chad is a great trainer !!!  He wouldn't let me get away with ANYTHING.   The laugh was on Mom - he had to train HER how to be a better pet owner.  From my point of view, she and Dad were the subordinates and I dominated the entire household.  Now Mom has to learn how to be more assertive, assume the controlling role and realize that I am a dog.   
(I am ???)  That change will be hard because she's such a push-over when it comes to Ollie and me.

We went to Starbucks where I sat like a normal dog and actually let people pass by and look at me without getting ballistic.


At another session, we all went to the dog park where I was free to roam off leash and and exhibited exemplary  behavior
in both the small AND large sections.  A first for me.  I'm probably not ready for a trip to San Francisco, but I'm getting there.


Chad is having a class in July and I'm planning to attend.
Mom needs more training.

Now Ollie and I have tons of blog readings to catch up with.  We've been away too long. 

It's good to be back.






5 comments:

Lorenza said...

OMD!
I am very happy to see you again and to know you all are doing well!
The "other" man is adorable!
Sure she had lots of fun there!
Aaaaand.... all those changes! Your Dad is pawesome and your house looks soooo beautiful!
Glad you are doing well with your therapy sessions!
Take care
Kisses and hugs
Lorenza

Bailey Be Good! said...

Love the photos! Thanks for sharing all the pics! :)

I'm new to your blog -- I have a furry American Eskimo sister, and wanted to say HI!

Woofs & hugs,

~Bailey

Siku Marie, White Dog said...

Cayden is growing so quickly...and he is a cutie! Dad sure got a LOT accomplished while mom was away; we hope she was pleased at the new look. Cappy, you are going to so enjoy the freedom that comes from working with an expert...you are already making such progress! It must of been VERY hard to have mom away so long, and we are glad you are all back at home...together! Know we think of you and Ollie and your pawrents all of the time and send White Dog woos of positive energy.

Siku Marie, White Dog said...

Thank you so very much for your generous contribution to the 2MillionDog Puppy Up NM Walk! You guys are the best! Thanks especially for your encouragement as we fight this beast which must be stopped. Knowing that you are at our side makes us feel stronger.

Could we ask a favor before the September 25 Walk? Can you mail us a photo of your entire family for us to hang on the Friends and Loved Ones Tribute Wall at the Event. That would be like having you at the Walk in spirit!

Momo and Pinot said...

Cappy and Ollie, thank you for coming by our blog!

Ohhhhh myyyyyy doooooog, our mom said she would leave us for a long time if there is anther little man like Cayden! He has a knock out smile! While your mom was away, there were so many changes. We love the 'before' & 'after' shots. Your place is beautiful. Thanks for sharing the photos!

We're happy that you have a Big Green Egg! We've never heard of wireless thorme! That's really cool!

Momo & Pinot